It should not be hard to think of things to be thankful for.  Yet,  I struggled with this list.  I sat looking at the blinking cursor for a while trying to focus my thoughts.  After substantially purging the negativity I had absorbed through my day, I finally arrived at a few things.

I am thankful for the love and support of my Parents. Their availability when I am in crisis.  Their emotional support.  The rapport that has developed since I reached adulthood.  For providing me with a foundation to be a strong woman.  Especially for loving me, even when I am not lovable.

I am thankful for my Husband.  He is everything that I am not.  He compliments me in our contrast.  He is sensitive, nurturing and indulgent.  He reigns me in when I go to the extremes. He encourages me to explore my desires.  He appreciates and acknowledges my efforts. Makes me stronger in every way.

I am thankful for my Pets.  Their fuzzy faces and quirky personalities.  Their unconditional love and endless entertainment.  They complete my home, my haven from the world.

I am thankful for my friend Melissa.  I am thankful for the way she is available when I need her.  I appreciate her security in our friendship that does not let the lapses in communication disrupt our bond.  I wish there were no miles between us, but her energy and love is easily evoked despite them.

I am thankful for my extended family, but especially for my cousin Danny.  His enthusiasm as he embraces life without fear despite a disability.

I am thankful for my life experiences, both good and bad.  They shape who I am and define my values.  My mistakes and achievements are uniquely my own.  I would do everything the same, even the pain and the tears.

I am thankful for the Troops who stand guard through the night so that I may sleep in peace.  Though I do not know them by name,  I think on them and marvel at their willingness to do what I don't think I could.  I thank them for my liberty and anxiously wait for them to come home.

I have so many things to be thankful for, merely watching the news reminds me how blessed I really am.  Perhaps from here I will make an effort to recognize what I have to be thankful for every day.  Not just the eve of this holiday.

Happy Thanksgiving All!  May your list be 3X as long as mine!  Love and Light!